Don’t take my kindess as fake nor weakness. It’s not my fault if one or more people are intimidated by me; sprouting nonsense bc of your own insecurity and projections. I’m not a person of drama nor hate, however, I’m not afraid to point it out either. One thing for sure is… I’ll definitley be praying for you two and whomever else that has such thinking/mentality.
You can set yourself free if you learn to accept the flaws in yourself rather than criticise others and and project onto others your negative, unacceptable qualities or feelings. Do not forget how sinful and un-perfect you are too. I’m not perfect but at least I’m confident enough accept people’s generosity & kindness and not view it as fake.
Also, If you choose to Critique, construtivtly or not, don’t get mad if you get criticism back.
I’m glad to see this once again happen to me, it teaches me not only strangers and extended/otuside friends & families are ungrateful and unappreciative, but close friends and families are the same as well. It’s sad because my kindness is genuine and I genuinely did care and loved you girls.
So, choose wisely when it comes to giving out your kindness and wisdom. Because some people twist and turn it into something ugly. I will not turn bitter because of this… instead I gained more wisdom from it and sadly, it’s you who will become bitter.
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” Matthew 7:3
“So why do you see the piece of sawdust in another believer’s eye and not notice the wooden beam in your own eye?” Matther 7:3
Definition of Projection: Everyone has it, but some has it worse than others.
Projection: is a defense mechanism that involves taking our own unacceptable qualities or feelings and ascribing them to other people. For example, if you have a strong dislike for someone, you might instead believe that he or she does not like you. Projection works by allowing the expression of the desire or impulse, but in a way that the ego cannot recognize, therefore reducing anxiety.